OK OK I know I have confused all by now and I am sorry about that! I went to wordpress after hearing it was better. It was. It was nice there. Until comments started to get eaten and marked as spam before I ever saw them. Guess I should have checked around more.
So I am now back at blogger. Sure I don't have the 3 column template that I loved but you know at least now your comments won't get eaten up!
I promise to stay on blogger for a year. Then after that I will self host my place. In the mean time I won't move an inch now! I will stay at blogger and enjoy it there and make the best of it!
Hope this helps to clear it all up!