My friend Hannah did a post on ANTs and I thought it was SO fitting with what I have been feeling lately that I decided I would write one of my own. So what kind of Ants am I talking about? Fire Ants? Carpenter Ants? Little black picnic Ants? No. These ANTs are much closer to home and here is a secret: we all have them.... Automatic Negative Thoughts, or ANTs. kinda like ROUS', except these rodents of unusual size exist within our brains. The ANTs I have been plagued with lately are: I am not accomplishing anything that I set out to do. I haven't been good enough with exercising the past few weeks. Ok, by not good enough I really mean that I haven't seen the inside of my gym in two weeks, and now I don't think I will reach my weight loss goal for family pictures at the end of November. I have an arbor in my backyard that my dad and I are building. We are rushing to get it done before it gets too cold and wet/snowy to finish it and yet, knowing that we are in a time crunch with the weather I can't seem to make myself go out and paint the last few boards. I leave dishes in my sink, which I hate. Not having a clean house completely sets me off in a bad mood and yet I cannot seem to find the motivation to clean it. I have so many ideas in my head of next chapters and new stories that I want to write and yet when I sit down, I don't seem to actually type any words. I don't think I let my husband know I appreciate him for the little things enough. I haven't finished one of my monthly projects at work yet. These are the ANTs that seem to have paralyzed me into a disturbing lapse of apathy lately. So what do you do when you get an attack of the ANTs? What are some tricks you all have found to get you from not focusing on the ever growing and sometimes seemingly insurmountable ANTs that march across your brain telling you that you will never be good enough or do enough or accomplish enough? Let me know, because I feel like I could use the help.
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reganblair said (8 months ago)
I'm a list person. I find that making daily lists of what needs to be done helps me get it done. It's satisfying to be able to check those things off. Regan. Oh, nice to meet ya!
annettelyon said (8 months ago)
I've definitely been there, done that. What helps me is picking one thing--a small thing at first--and planning a reward when I accomplish it. Something as simple as a piece of really good chocolate waiting for me on the other side of a finished chapter can be enough to motivate me to get my fingers on the keyboard. Celebrate the successes you DO have and build on them, one at a time rather than focusing on what's not going right. Good luck--and hang in there. I like the term "ANT." I might adopt it.
Coop said (8 months ago)
Hi there, Just got word from my buddy Antman. I'd love to help you with your fitness situation. My immediate guess is that your diet is going to need to be right on target. I'm not sure how many pounds you want or hope to lose...but diet is going to be crucial. Let me know how I can help, and we'll get you ready for those pix. Best, Coop
Antman said (8 months ago)
I think we all get em. I feel the key is not to try to get rid of em all, just to keep the big ones from ruinin' ya day. Prioritize and go from there. Great Post! I know someone who might be able to help ya out from a gym perspective. I'm gonna forward this post to him!
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