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I heard a song the other day by Mark Shultz (A Christian Music Artist) named “Remember Me”. (If you don’t know the song, take a listen below – and you can practice reading Spanish)

http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=vTyStPuiKLQ

The context of the song made me think about what I can do to make my family, friends, community, country and maybe even the world to remember who I was.

I have always tried my best to make a difference in the world around me, Ever since high school I have been a volunteer, Rotarian, and humanitarian. I have tried my best to raise money for worthy causes and have worked to be an educator to the people I encounter.

At times I have to wonder what makes a person remembered. Is it the legacy that they leave behind in their children, the money accumulate or their philanthropy, the people they serve or touch in their existence? Is it the large grandiose gestures, or the small, seemingly meaningless ones?

Over at Our Crooked Tree, a celebration of a post, just occurred and with this she decided to talk about 100 things about her and one of them made me think again about this topic. She mentioned that she wished to write a book someday. Thinking about this, I guess there will be some who may remember me due to the publications that I have written. Yes, I can honestly say that I am an author, but no, most of you will never read it unless you are in the field of student affairs or are in college administration. I also have my dissertation published (I don’t know how many have actually read it besides J-Mom, and my Dad and Mom (pasts of it at least)). So will this make me remembered… I would probably say no, but the relationships I made in writing the book will make me remembered.

I think this is part of it…I think you have to put yourself out there and be willing to take a chance. Take a chance on people, take a chance on getting to know others, networking and being there when they need you. I tell you blogging has opened up a world of new people to me outside of my business network and it has been great! I know that taking this leap for some is not easy. Opening yourself and trusting the people you meet takes time – take the time and get started! Your listening ear may make a difference to someone else.

I guess for me, I will continue to do what I can to make a difference. In my thoughts, making a difference is contextual and carries an individual definition that only you can know. So what is important in my mind is making a difference in the lives of the people around me, but also those less fortunate.

So my questions for the day…

- What will you do or have you done to be remembered?
- What does making a difference mean to you?

I look forward to your thoughts and comments!

August 1, 2008 |


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  1. Birdie August 2, 2008 8:14 am   

    You’re such a thoughtful soul! It remionds me of the song, Legacy by Nichole Nordeman
    http://www.lyred.com/lyrics/Nichole+Nordeman/Live+at+the+Door/Legacy/
    I don’t give being remembered much thought to be honest. At my aunt’s funeral, Monday, most people remembered her selflessness and sweet heart. There are things I want to leave behind for my kids when I’m gone. I want them to remember what I taught them about God & how to treat people. Driving tips too…I’m always giving driving tips - you’re never too young to start! *laugh* I live my life in a way that will bless God & bless others. I think I’ll be remembered for those things.

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    trysh    , Crafting August 4, 2008 5:55 pm   

    There is that old song that says “You’ll know they are Christians by their love” - and it would be incredible to be remembered for the love I share with my family, church, friends, and everyone I meet. But I don’t think I will.

    What would be even better would be to be remembered as “God’s Girl” - giving Him all the glory - where it belongs!

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