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Happy Father’s Day to all of the Buzz Dads out there! I hope you all have an amazing day and take the time to realize the important role you play in your family.  For me, Father’s Day has always been a time of appreciation - for my own father and my wife and kids.  I feel fortunate to have such a wonderful family, and I love being a DAD!!!

One of the things I learned from my dad is the importance of telling your wife and kids that you love them every day.  When I look back on my childhood, my dad was quick to discipline me and my brother, but he was also generous with doling out praise and love.

As I’ve grown in my role as a father, I’ve tried to apply the same principles to how I interact with my kids.  There are rules and consequences for behaviors; however, I try to spend more time telling them what they do right than what they do wrong.  And, I make it a point to tell them how much I love them every day.

What did you learn from your father?  How have you applied that to your role as a Dad (or Mom)?

June 15, 2008 |


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  1. piper of love June 15, 2008 11:46 am   

    Happy Fathers Day to you Jeremy! I know this one is extra sweet for you and your family, there’s lots to be thankful for. I’m happy for you!

    Fathers Day is kind of a non holiday for me, I never knew my Dad. But, I can tell you that I’m very thankful that there ARE great Dad’s in the world, and I think I know the BEST of them.

    Enjoy your day :)


  2. Jeff aka DaddysToolbox June 15, 2008 6:17 pm   

    hey good post Jeremy! I think I learned the following from my dad, whether it’s good or bad: organization skills, promptness, how to cook a great steak, he was the coach of my little league team for years, how to make sure he and I stay close by still taking me to baseball games (now with my son!). I find though that I now discipline my children the same way as he did. Fast, quick and loud. I’m trying a different approach lately, to step back, breathe, and use a softer voice when disciplining. It is actually working!

    My Dad doesn’t share a lot of feelings but when he does it is amazing, it’s very heartfelt and emotional. I’m a lot more open as an individual that my Dad.


  3. Birdie June 15, 2008 10:14 pm   

    Great post! My Dad taught us about God, about the importance of telling the truth and keeping your word and how doing things right is important. High standards really. I love him dearly.

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    antman    , Antman June 15, 2008 10:29 pm   

    The key lesson I learned from my dad, Responsibility, “No one is going to do it for you, so you better learn to do it yourself.” My dad was no joke, when it came to takin’ personal accountability and ownership for ya own life. It was hard at times, but I tell ya, he was right. Its the best lesson anyone can give their kids. How, it is taught, I think there a lot of ways to do it, but the underlying message is a great one. One not taught enough today.


  5. Dapoppins June 16, 2008 12:38 am   

    My dad told me that families that go to church stay together longer…he is on his third marriage.

    But then, He never went to church either.

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    tenakim    , Moms June 16, 2008 10:30 am   

    Happy belated Father’s Day to you!

    I learned from my dad that it’s never too late. He is a recovering alcoholic who was drunk and violent for the first 15 years of my life. He is now the best dad I could have ever wished for. He has shown strength, perseverence, and determination to turn his life around.

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    Maureen    , Painting/Drawing June 16, 2008 4:28 pm   

    My Dad taught me to draw and paint. I still remember sitting down with him while he showed me how to use the brushes and get cool effects just with a swipe of the hand.

    I am forever indebted to him for my love of art and his artistic gene.

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    RealWorldMom    , Moms June 18, 2008 10:09 am   

    Great topic, J! Happy belated Father’s Day!

    I never had a very good relationship with my dad, so I think I learned more from him about what NOT to do/be…

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